Why I am here for you

Because you deserve a life that feels as peaceful on the inside, as it looks successful on the outside.

I'm Gintare, your counsellor, and I help people like you quiet the noise of anxiety and rebuild the deep, meaningful connection in your relationship.

I know anxiety not just in theory, but in experience: that sinking worry, nauseous flutter and constant edge. Death anxiety entered my world as a teenager and stayed for many years, until I learned to meet it with curiosity rather than fear. That shift - learning to listen instead of fight - changed everything for me, and it deeply shapes how I sit with others.

I’ll be honest: I haven’t known love without pain. So when love hurts, I hear you. I believe healing happens when we feel seen, understood and gently challenged to grow.

Beyond our work together, you'll usually find me with a latte in my hand and my favourite book to keep me company. I’m also a vintage soul and a devoted animal lover. I'm a person with a million questions and an anxious perfectionist heart. Most importantly, I value depth, honesty and meaningful conversations - because through them, clarity emerges and life begins to feel more aligned.

With warmth and care


Here to listen, reflect and walk alongside you

'Fine' is becoming a heavy word to carry. Your mind scans the horizon for every possible failure - a missed email, a future financial shift, a physical ache. You believe that if you can think of the disaster first, you can prevent it. Your body has forgotten how to be off-duty.

Can you see yourself in this?

Hyper-vigilance was your survival skill as a child. Growing up in a home with addiction or emotional unpredictability taught you to scan the room. You've sent enough of your life looking out for everyone else.

Can you see yourself in this?

You've mastered the art of walking on eggshells, bracing for next argument or the heavy weight of another night spent in cold silence. You still love each other, but you're tired of performing 'we're fine' while your connection slowly thins out into a series of misunderstandings.

Does this feel like where you two are at?


How I work

My Therapeutic Approach

Counselling that moves at the speed of your life. I understand that some days, talking for an hour feels like a mountain to climb. My integrative approach is responsive to your energy. If you arrive feeling overwhelmed, we don't need 'push'. Whether we spend our time in deep reflection or a grounding reset for today's anxiety, the hour is shaped by what your nervous system needs in that moments. You never have to worry about 'performing' or having enough to say. Working with adults and couples, I meet you where you are to help you explore your authentic self and build healthier connections. I offer a safe, non-judgemental space in-person or online to help you build the resilience needed for your path forward.


Practical Details

Initial 60-minute Session: £40

Follow-Up 60-minute Session: £60

90-minute Couples Therapy Session: £100

Payment: Cash or Bank Transfer

Flexible Booking Options:

  • Weekly
  • Fortnightly
  • Monthly
  • Single Session

Important: For mental health crises, call 999 or visit A&E.

FAQs

Are you professionally qualified and registered?

Yes. I am fully insured, DBS checked and registered with the British Association for Counselling and Psychotherapy (BACP), registration number 409715. I work in strict accordance with the BACP Ethical Framework and adhere to established best practices, ensuring a safe, professional and ethical therapeutic environment.

How can I book an appointment and what is your current availability?

Booking is simple and can be done directly through this website. You can use the “Book Appointment” button to access the contact form, or head over to the Contact Page to find the specific links for individual or couples sessions.

I currently have no waitlist. You can usually secure an initial session quickly, typically within 7 to 14 days.

What are your working hours?

I offer a range of daytime and evening appointments to fit into your busy schedule, including weekend availability for those who can't make it during the week.

My current hours are:

  • Monday – Wednesday: 9:00 am – 9:00 pm
  • Friday: 9:00 am – 9:00 pm
  • Saturday: 9:30 am – 1:00 pm
  • Thursday & Sunday: Closed
What happens if I need to cancel or rebook my session?

I understand that life can be unpredictable and sometimes plans need to change. You always have the right to cancel or reschedule your appointment. To help me manage my diary and offer that space to another client, I kindly ask for at least 24 hours' notice.

Here is how the cancellation policy works:

  • More than 24 hours' notice: You can cancel or rebook with no charge.
  • Less than 24 hours' notice: A late cancellation fee applies, which is 50% of your session fee.
  • Non-attendance (No-show): If you miss your session without any notice, the full session fee will apply.

Please note that any outstanding fees must be settled before we can book your next appointment. This policy allows me to keep my practice sustainable and ensures that I can offer consistent support to all my clients.

I'm feeling quite anxious about the first appointment. What is the process?

It is completely natural to feel a bit of "first-session" nerves - in fact, many of my clients feel exactly the same way. My goal is to make the process as smooth and transparent as possible for you. Once you’ve reached out, I will offer my current available times so we can find a slot that works for your schedule. When your session is booked, you will receive an automatic booking confirmation via email. I will also send you a personal introductory email. This contains all the practical details you’ll need, such as the address (if we’re meeting in person) or the secure video link (if we’re meeting online), along with what to expect during our first 60 minutes together.

In that first session, there’s no pressure to "perform" or have all the answers. We’ll simply talk about what’s bringing you to therapy and see how we feel working together. I genuinely look forward to meeting you and supporting you in taking this first step.

How will counselling help me understand my issues?

Together, we will gently explore patterns in your thoughts, emotions and experiences. By looking beneath surface concerns, counselling can help uncover deeper meanings, allowing for greater clarity, self-understanding and change.

Will I have space to talk openly?

Yes. Sessions provide a safe, non-judgemental space where you can express your thoughts, feelings and perspectives freely. You are encouraged to speak openly, at your own pace, about whatever feels important to you.

Can counselling help me find answers to deeper questions about myself?

Many clients begin to explore meaningful questions such as “Who am I?” and “How do I really want to live my life?”. Counselling offers space to reflect on these questions, helping you develop a deeper sense of identity, purpose and direction.

Is this approach suitable if I feel uncertain or stuck?

Absolutely. This integrative approach - a blend of person-centred and psychodynamic counselling, emotionally focused therapy, mindfulness and sound therapy, existential therapy and some elements from CBT - is particularly helpful if you feel unsure, disconnected or at a crossroads in your life. By combining different therapeutic perspectives, counselling can help you gain insight, feel more grounded and move forward with greater confidence.

How do you maintain and develop your professional skills?

To remain at the forefront of my field, I regularly attend workshops, seminars, and continuing professional development training. My ongoing learning includes Couples Therapy, Emotionally Focused Therapy, anxiety, co-dependency and OCD behaviour management, mindfulness and non-duality, autistic burnout, and holistic mental health, among other areas. This allows me to offer informed, up-to-date and responsive support.

What are your main areas of special interest?

My special interests are supporting people with anxiety, particularly high-functioning and death anxiety, understanding it as both a mental and physical experience, and helping couples rebuild connection, closeness, trust and understanding.


You’ve spent so long being the one who 'has it all together.' Now, let’s find a space where you don’t have to perform. Healing isn't about fixing yourself - it's about finally feeling safe enough to be yourself.


Sound Meditation

mindfulness technique

Sound baths offer a restorative journey for the self, countering the disruptive noises of daily life. This mindfulness technique can help restore energy, reduce stress and anxiety, and improve sleep. In my sessions, I use crystal singing bowls, a Tibetan bowl, a rain stick, and tuning forks. I can also incorporate guided meditation.


You have the option to include sound meditation in your counselling session, which will require additional time, or you can book it separately.


Sound meditation is not suitable for virtual settings.

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Contact


If you’re looking for anxiety or couples therapy in Rochester, Kent, or online, I'd love to hear from you. We can use our first session to talk through what’s bringing you to therapy and make sure I’m the right fit for your journey.

To get started, you can book the first session directly through my booking system, or simply send me a message using the contact form.

I typically respond within 24 hours. All communication is strictly confidential, using secure phone and email services.

Privacy and Data Protection:

  • No clients are identified on social media
  • I advise against sharing personal information on public posts
  • I comply with the Data Protection Act 2018 and GDPR
  • I am registered with Information Commissioner's Office (ICO)
  • Your details are not shared with third parties
  • Strict confidentiality is maintained throughout

Please note: Online scheduling shows limited availability. For additional time slots, contact me directly to check my full availability.

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